If you ever cared about your ex, just let her move on with her life. Are you prepared for that? She could have a little flat if he can afford to help her. If it really was something that he couldnt countenance, then he owed it to her to have a chat with her and discuss whether they should be together at all if they both wanted such different things. So she thought marriage was a good idea. reader, singinbluebird+, writes (29 February 2020): A We dated for two years. It does not take this long to know if you want to be married to someone. However, dont make the mistake of giving her too much space (some guys go overboard and ignore a woman for weeks or even months), or she will just go back to thinking that you dont care enough to commit. Okay, lets be honest with each other here. If she feels like shes a priority, if she feels like you are listening, if she feels like shes appreciated, then youre not going to have major problems. Where was all that effort when we were still in a relationship? You remind her how busy you are, and she relents. Shes had enough of your stringing her along. She pinned hopes on your changing your mind about refusing this. It's not because you weren't what she was looking for. And then would get angry at ME for wondering where the hell hes been? she left because i didn 't propose Archives | Inspirationfeed How could I be so selfish to mess this up? If Your Man Didn't Propose (But Should Have) Read This She has a MUCH different definition of commitment. He's the man of your dreams and he says you are the woman of his. Now she obviously came backas stated in the moviebecause she had nowhere else to go. It may even lead to a marriage that doesnt last. It revolves around feeling heard, cared for, and appreciated. But I havent touched on the big mistake that guys in your situation always make. Why not take time to get to knwo gran and introduce the kid. That is crazy. Met a woman two years younger, also never been married. PS: Need help processing the breakup so you can get back to feeling like yourself again? If you dont find the info you need in this column, please visit the Dear Wendy archives or the forums (you can even start your own thread), do a search in the search bar, or submit a question for advice at wendy(AT)dearwendy.com. I know most people may not have a problem just moving in with a man and his grandmother, but I have a 12-year-old daughter and I want her to feel comfortable in her own house. It's not because she didn't picture a future with you. Follow along on Facebook, and Instagram. Thats what you need in a partner, not someone who will ditch their grandma because of your selfish needs, how would you like it if he felt same way about your child??
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